Why is it that I drop everything to help out my friends and then end up getting shafted in the end?
I'm sorry but to me when someone helps you get out of an abusive and controlling relationship you don't run back to that controlling person. I feel highly insulted. Why should I have even gone through the trouble of helping if it was all going to happen again.
I love helping my friends out if they need helping but why can't anyone seem to be there when I need it? (Except my Mom and Kody of course).
Soon I will be where I am meant to be... I cannot wait for that.
You are a good person, sweetheart. I know it's really difficult to see a person you care about going back into a relationship like that willingly. I speak from experience when I say that it's really tough to get out of those relationships because you convince yourself that it isn't really controlling, that everything is good. The best thing you can do is keep trying to be this person's friend and help them try to see what you do. I know it's hard, especially when this person keeps running back to their abuser.
ReplyDeleteI know you can't wait to get to Oregon, and I'm so glad you guys are going to get to be together again! You just keep your head up and let me know if you need anything. I love you!